I Feel Insecure When My Boyfriend Watches Porn

Porn triggers my body dysmorphia, anxious attachment, and existential dread

Kat Rivera

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Let me say this upfront — I’m not anti-porn. But I am anti-my-boyfriend-using-porn.

It makes me feel un-sexy. It makes our relationship feel less intimate. Like he’s allowing others to intrude into our sexual bond.

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Kat Rivera

Raging feminist, loving cat mother, aspiring author